Things That Make Us Happy!

Things That Make Us Happy, are often the simple things in life!

When I was a kid, I use to think that a sports car and a big fancy house with lots of property would bring me the most happiness!

I was the guy that would give irritated “How annoying” looks to couples with babies who would be crying in a restaurant.

But now I’m a dad, and those crying babies in restaurants are now just white noise to me.  If fact, sometimes hearing those babies cry makes me smile for a split second… At least at first!

Okay, I digress…

Things That Make Me Happy:

  • When my son laughs!  It’s a great hardy laugh that makes me feel great inside!
  • When my daughter learns something new quickly, or creates something original and cool!
  • Reading to either of my kids.  I like the idea of me helping any way that I can.
  • Receiving earnest hugs from either of my kids, obviously it’s a great feeling.
  • When my 6-year-old daughter wants to snuggle with her daddy…, she is a truly wonderful little girl.
  • Watching family movie night at home, while having popcorn, drinks and snacks.
  • Playing my son in a game of chess.  He’s really gotten a lot better at the game, and even though I mostly beat him (so far), it’s make me feel great that he’s improving.
  • Getting stomped by my daughter in the memory matching games.  Lately, she destroys me in those type of games.
  • Going on family vacations with my entire family, including my parents and sister’s family.
  • Writing this blog…

So you see, for me I really don’t need fancy stuff!  Just the love of a great family is enough for me!

What thing makes you the most happy?

-MR

Upgrading to a McMansion!

Upgrading to a McMansion!

McMansion

McMansion

Well, my friend that won a house has upgraded from their free townhouse to a McMansion!  Actually the house is even on the large side for a McMansion since it’s over 4,000 square feet!

Now both my friend and her husband can’t really afford such a house if it were just their salaries that they had to rely on (I believe it was listed around $350,000 after coming down from the $400,000s) .

So how do they afford it?

They are renting out their townhouse (that they won) for about $1,000 a month!  All of this money goes towards the mortgage payment of the new house!  From my calculations, they should be able to afford the house with that extra $1,000 going towards their mortgage.

But even better, they only had to take out a $280,000 mortgage since they had enough saved up for a $70,000 dollar down-payment!   They had this much because they were able to save their money for the past 5 or so years that they lived in the townhouse!

Not that they need it, but with record low mortgage rates, if they make the normal payment and don’t pay anything extra, they should be able to have the same fun lifestyle that they had before the upgrade!  Remember, both of them are in their mid-20s still!

Now for a Few of the McMansion Highlights!

The house has a huge home theater in the basement!  The previous owners bought some type of projection unit mounted on the ceiling and it projects to the entire screen wall!  The picture is huge, and its high definition!  It was quite literally the largest viewing experience I’ve ever seen outside of a movie theater!

home theater

a similar home theater layout

The 3 car garage had a heater and the floor was covered with some special rubberized surface!  The office in the house was larger than my master bedroom.  Wood trim was everywhere, it was a huge house!

I was amazed, do you know anyone who owns a McMansion?

-MR

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4 Common Styles of Lifestyle Spending: Always, Early, Later, Never

There are 4 common styles of lifestyle spending: Always, Early, Later, Never

Always Spender:

This style of spending has no restrictions and massive debt is common to this particular lifestyle spending.  The spender may follow this path because they have a short lifespan, they believe an unseen hand will provide and take care of them. they are rich, they may be weak-minded or low self-esteem, and too many other reasons to list them all…

Unless you are rich, have a short lifespan, or extremely lucky, this lifestyle will have the spender paying later in their life by living in poverty.  Still, is this an incorrect lifestyle to live?  For most of us (including me) yes, but for other, it depends on their situation.

Early Spender:

This style of spending typically happens when you are also young and finally are cut loose from your parents.  Some kids go wild with their spending because they are their own boss, or because they weren’t properly educated in financial matters!  There are many great bloggers out there that come from this type of background (J.D. roth @ www.Getrichslowly.org, Jason @ www.Frugaldad.com and  Jeff @ www.deliverawaydebt.com).

Like the above bloggers, with some dedicated focus and determination, the Early spender can recover from this debt and still go on to acquire great wealth!

Later Spender:

This style of spending happens when the new spender achieves a certain level of financial security, and thus starts spending a bit more money than they did earlier.  It’s common for these spenders to be financial independent when they start to loosen the purse strings on their finances.  Of course, often times these spenders still continue to save more than they spend!  This groups should be able to leave behind an inheritance for their kids.

This is the style that I am pursuing, although I’m not really financial independent yet!  While I intend on spending more, I too, still plan to save more than I spend!  I just want to increase my spending a little more, but not too drastically!

Never Spender:

Another name for this style of spending is Miserly.  In my opinion, this group is the worst to be in!  This groups lives in a continual state of depravity.  They are constantly looking to save a buck at the expense of everything else!

Scrooge is a character in The Christmas Carol, but he epitomizes the miser fairly well.

Conclusion:

So in my opinion, I would not want to be a “Never” or an “Always” spender!  Both of these spender types have too much of  a negative end results.  Obviously, I’d rather be a “Later” spender than an “Always” spender!

There is another spending style that is not common and somewhat difficult to achieve, and that is the Balanced spender!   The typical balanced spender may have a budget to control their spending!  This may be the best of all of the spenders types because they accomplish their savings goals, while still spending money on fun stuff!

A great example of blogger that follow this path are Crystal @ BudgetingInTheFunStuff.com and J. Money @ BudgetsAreSexy.com!

-MR

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Defend Your Financial Fortress Against Spending Temptations!

Financial Fortress

Your Financial Fortress

A prudent person  must always defend their financial fortress against the continuous onslaught of unnecessary spending temptations.After reading fellow blogger Roshawn’s post called Financial Backbone Round Up and Uncommon Money News, it made me realize that to achieve financial security/stability, not only are we bucking what the popular media and commercials trends state that we should be doing with our money, but we are in a continual fight with foolish financial temptations!

Our Weapons

The best tool that we have for defending our Financial Fortress is a trusty spreadsheet program and/or special financial planning software.  These tools enable us to created a budget which in turn, increases the likelihood that we keep our lifestyle spending in check!

The Enemy

Everywhere you turn, you are constantly being seized upon by financial spending temptations.  On the roads driving, ever now and then, you’ll see a Maserati and think to yourself “I want one”  or perhaps you’ll be on vacation driving along the coast and you’ll see a yacht or even a private island for sell and think, “I want one“.

The key to remember when you see such temptations is that even though we are constantly bombarded with many tempting and exciting offers, we must only purchase those things that are financially possible given our current financial plan.

Battle Plans

We should all strive to have a perfect financial balance by creating a budget for the entertainment and fun stuff in our financial plan.  That way, we have an absolute financial number that we can use to determine how much to spend on the wants in our lives in addition to the necessities!

What desired wants are constantly pounding against your financial fortress?

-MR